Relationships are hard — no one’s denying that. Not knowing what another person is thinking makes it difficult to tell if you’re both on the same page or not. Which is why communication is so important.
If you’ve been dating a guy for a while, who says he’s into you, but you still find yourself wondering exactly how serious he is, it might be time to really ask yourself some tough questions. Here are 9 signs he’s not in it for the long-haul:
He Doesn’t Support You
Support is incredibly important in a relationship! But it’s not always given. Does your boyfriend support you? Not financially, emotionally. Having support isn’t just having someone that helps pay your bills or treats you to expensive dates. It’s having someone who helps you prepare for your big presentation at work or school. Someone who listens to you when you’re upset and shows up when you need them to. Is your boyfriend only there when things are good? Does he rarely, if ever, ask you about your day or show interest in things that are important to you? If he was serious about you, he’d show an interest in you. Period.